Baldur’s Gate 3 – Romance Guide for Shadowheart
Baldur's Gate 3 - Romance Guide for Shadowheart
How to Romance Shadowheart in Baldur’s Gate 3 – The Dark Mistress of Love
In the vast world of Baldur’s Gate 3, there are many companions who can steal your heart, but none quite like Shadowheart. She’s a follower of Shar, the Mistress of the Dark, and she’s got more secrets than a treasure chest in a haunted mansion. Our guide will take you on a romantic journey with Shadowheart in Baldur’s Gate 3, while unraveling the potential mishaps along the way. Brace yourself for a love story as twisted as a pretzel, and just as delicious.

Unveiling Shadowheart’s Heart
Before you can even dream of wooing Shadowheart, you need to understand her dark past as a devout Shar worshiper. This is intertwined with her companion quest: Daughter of Darkness and Chosen of Shar. Here’s a quick summary to get you started on the path to her heart:
- You’ll first encounter Shadowheart aboard the Nautiloid during the game’s prologue. Make sure to save her, showing off your heroic side. Check out our companion recruitment guide for more info on how to impress her.
- Despite being a follower of Shar, Shadowheart surprisingly prefers kind and compassionate actions. She also admires the use of your wiles to deceive enemies (Persuasion and Deception). Keep in mind that she’s not fond of Lae’zel, so play nice and respond wisely to certain suggestions.
- As your relationship with Shadowheart deepens, she’ll eventually reveal her true nature and the purpose of her artifact. Despite the fact that Shar is feared by many in Faerun, your acceptance of her is crucial. Prepare yourself for a scene that unveils her mysterious past.
The First Kiss Conundrum
During the early access period, romancing Shadowheart in Baldur’s Gate 3 involved being in her good graces and saving the Tiefling refugees. This led to a cozy camp party where she would be in the mood for a drink and a smooch, advancing your romance to the next level.
Unfortunately, in our playthrough, this option seemed to have gone missing. We’re not sure if the requirements have changed or if some other romance got in the way – Damn you, Karlach! So, the possibility of a fiery first kiss with Shadowheart remains uncertain for now.
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The Nightsong Decision – Love in the Dark
Fast forward to Act 2, where things start to heat up between you and Shadowheart. This is the point where you can progress her companion quest and enter the treacherous Gauntlet of Shar. Here, an important decision awaits you regarding the Nightsong. Brace yourself, for the fate of your romance is at stake:
- Spare Nightsong: By sparing Nightsong’s life, Shadowheart will receive Selune’s blessing and be forsaken by Shar. She’s a little worried about losing her faith, but she opens herself up more to your relationship. Choose to continue pursuing romance with Shadowheart.
- Kill Nightsong: Should you choose to eliminate Nightsong, Shadowheart will be blessed by Shar herself. She claims her love is only for her goddess, but you can express your desire to keep trying with your relationship. After this thrilling turn of events, Shadowheart is back to being her radiant self, with a new hairdo and even an option for a romantic dialogue kiss (which oddly didn’t happen in our saved game where we spared Nightsong).
- Unknown: Offer your heart and soul to Shar: There’s a statue of Shar that characters can worship, granting a necrotic resistance buff. However, when Shadowheart attempts to pray, she hears nothing. The only option left is a Religion check, hinting that she must offer her entire being to Shar. We have yet to see the outcome of this choice after clearing the dungeon.

These are all the puzzling pieces we’ve gathered so far on how to romance Shadowheart in Baldur’s Gate 3. We’ve stumbled upon a few tidbits, like how early-game flirting possibly prevented that crucial status flag from triggering. Withers even referred to her as our partner, and she was the target of the Dark Urge due to our strong relationship. Stay tuned, as we’ll continue updating this guide with new discoveries and insights.
Baldur’s Gate 3 is teeming with activities and secrets, promising countless hours of adventure. For more tips and guides, make sure to visit our BG3 guides hub and embark on an expedition to become the ultimate romantic hero!





